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On a receiving end of "Passive Aggressiveness" (冷暴力)

 We have all been there, receiving no straight answer from questioning your own position within a scenario. Leading more questions and uncertainty cluttering the mind even further, when all in our mind we just need the raw truth of what is going on.  "you are too kind, so I don't want to hurt you..." concealing truths so they hope there would not be any out burst that would end up hurting their own ego.  ..................... It's never easy being the receiving end of passive aggressiveness, and far too many treat it as a go-to so to end a relationship, not knowing that not having the sense of closure scars the receiver way deeper than knowing the truth up front and center. At least at the receiving end, the world and the stars are able to be aligned again naturally then rather being concealed in the dark.  ----------------- personal note:  To those I have invested my emotions to within my lifetime, there's no taking back, I was angry for being untruthful and fo...
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Back to 1^2 (square one)

 Today I've deleted my Instagram and Facebook application off my phone.  I have come to realized how much information that was fed to my mind almost every minute and which have clouded my judgement for a few life turning events that had happened for the past year and a half. It would take time for me to calibrate and realign myself to be in peace with my past.  I've learnt that writing my thoughts and feelings out would definitely help me to put things into perspective with my own leaning curve. The purpose of this blog is keep myself on the grid, while keeping myself out from unwanted news and information that would trigger a lot of anger or sadness.  Until I am ready to put myself out in the world again, I would just focus on my own personal well-being, being selfish for myself for once.  I know some of my friends and acquaintances would say this is old-school and it's harder to get noticed, however, I would say, if you have cared, you would drop by once awhil...
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