On a receiving end of "Passive Aggressiveness" (冷暴力)

 We have all been there, receiving no straight answer from questioning your own position within a scenario. Leading more questions and uncertainty cluttering the mind even further, when all in our mind we just need the raw truth of what is going on. 

"you are too kind, so I don't want to hurt you..." concealing truths so they hope there would not be any out burst that would end up hurting their own ego. 

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It's never easy being the receiving end of passive aggressiveness, and far too many treat it as a go-to so to end a relationship, not knowing that not having the sense of closure scars the receiver way deeper than knowing the truth up front and center. At least at the receiving end, the world and the stars are able to be aligned again naturally then rather being concealed in the dark. 

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personal note: 

To those I have invested my emotions to within my lifetime, there's no taking back, I was angry for being untruthful and for the lack of courage to face up to me. I do hope for a brief moment in life, you are able to understand how hurtful and frustrating it could be and realized what you have done to me. However, I still love you too, where ever you may be, and who ever you are with.